Soulmates Trope: Writing Destined Love in Comics and Manga

Some love feels inevitable—as if these two people were always meant to find each other. The soulmates trope explores destiny in romance, whether through magical systems that mark fated partners, inexplicable connection that defies logic, or love that survives beyond single lifetimes. It asks: What if the universe itself wanted you together?

This guide covers crafting compelling soulmate stories in comics and manga, balancing the wonder of fate with the importance of choice.

Understanding the Soulmates Trope

Key elements that define soulmate narratives:

Destined Connection: Something beyond choice links these people—fate, magic, divine will, or cosmic design.

Unique Bond: Their connection is special, different from ordinary relationships.

Recognition: Often involves a moment of knowing, instant or gradual.

Inevitability Versus Choice: The tension between predetermined destiny and free will.

Why This Trope Resonates

The Fantasy of Certainty

In a world of romantic uncertainty, soulmates offer the comfort of knowing. No guessing if this is “the one”—it’s written in the stars.

Instant Meaningfulness

The connection matters from the first moment. Every interaction carries weight because this person is your destiny.

External Validation

The universe itself confirms the relationship. It’s not just their feelings—something greater endorses their bond.

Epic Scale

Soulmate stories can span lifetimes, dimensions, or cosmic forces, giving romance a scope beyond the everyday.

Types of Soulmate Mechanics

The Mark System

Physical or magical indicators:

• Matching symbols/marks appearing at age/event
• Name of soulmate written on skin
• Timer counting down to meeting
• Color vision only unlocked by meeting soulmate
• Physical sensation when near soulmate

The Recognition System

Internal knowing without external signs:

• Instant deep connection upon meeting
• Feeling of homecoming or completion
• Dreams of each other before meeting
• Sense of familiarity with a stranger
• Instinctive trust or understanding

The Reincarnation System

Souls that reconnect across lives:

• Memories of past lives together
• Repetition of meeting circumstances
• Different forms but same souls
• Learning/growing together across incarnations
• Destiny to find each other every lifetime

The Magical Bond System

Active magical connection:

• Empathic links (feeling each other’s emotions)
• Telepathic communication
• Physical effects of separation
• Shared abilities or power enhancement
• Life force connection

Setting Up Your Soulmate Story

Establish the Rules

Define how soulmates work in your world:

• How are soulmates identified/confirmed?
• When do people find out who their soulmate is?
• Is it always romantic or can it be other bonds?
• What percentage of people have soulmates?
• Are there consequences to being with non-soulmates?

The Initial Connection

How do they meet?

• The dramatic first meeting with instant recognition
• Gradual realization they’re soulmates
• Knowing who each other is but not having met
• One knows, the other doesn’t (yet)
• Meeting under complicated circumstances

The Central Tension

Soulmate stories need conflict despite destiny:

• External obstacles to being together
• One or both already in relationships
• Soulmate bond across enemy lines
• Resistance to the destiny itself
• The question of whether they can choose otherwise

Balancing Destiny and Choice

The Core Question

The best soulmate stories grapple with: Does destiny make their love less meaningful, or more?

Choice Matters

Show characters actively choosing:

• They could resist; they choose to embrace
• The bond creates opportunity, not guarantee
• They must work at the relationship despite destiny
• Free will matters even when fate is real
• Choosing each other every day, not just once

Destiny Adds, Doesn’t Replace

The soulmate bond enhances rather than substitutes:

• They still fall in love naturally
• Character compatibility matters
• The relationship requires effort
• Problems don’t solve themselves
• The bond helps but doesn’t do the work

Story Structures

The Search for Soulmate

Finding an unknown destined person:

• Quest to locate the other half
• Following clues or signs
• Near-misses and false leads
• The meeting as climax or midpoint
• Then building the actual relationship

The Rejected Soulmate

Resistance to destiny:

• One or both don’t want this
• Trying to forge different paths
• Destiny keeps intervening
• Coming to terms with the bond
• Choosing acceptance or continued resistance

The Complicated Soulmate

Obstacles despite destiny:

• Enemies or opposing sides
• Already committed elsewhere
• Huge differences to bridge
• The bond as complication, not solution
• Working through issues destiny created

The Reincarnated Soulmate

Finding each other again:

• Memories surfacing gradually
• Recognizing the soul, not the person
• Past life revelations
• Breaking cycles or completing them
• The relationship across all incarnations

The Subverted Soulmate

Questioning the trope:

• What if soulmates don’t work out?
• What if the real love isn’t the “destined” one?
• Examining why we want fate to choose for us
• Love that’s chosen over love that’s assigned
• The value of imperfect, chosen love

Visual Storytelling

Representing the Bond

Show the soulmate connection visually:

• Literal visual links (red thread, matching auras)
• Composition that connects them even when apart
• Color association between soulmates
• Visual motifs they share
• The world “highlighting” them to each other

The Recognition Moment

The instant of knowing deserves impact:

• Dramatic panel composition
• Time seeming to stop
• Background falling away
• Visual effects showing the bond activating
• Both characters’ reactions captured

Showing the Connection

Ongoing visual representation:

• Unconscious mirroring of posture/expression
• Gravitating toward each other in panels
• Comfortable proximity from early on
• Completing each other’s visual space
• Art style shifts when together vs. apart

Common Pitfalls

Insta-Love Without Depth

Just because they’re soulmates doesn’t mean:

• Skip the relationship development
• Automatic understanding without communication
• Perfect compatibility without effort
• The bond does all the work
• No conflict or growth

Destiny creates opportunity, not finished relationship.

No Tension

If being soulmates solves everything:

• No story left to tell
• No reason to worry about the relationship
• No stakes or drama
• Reader disengagement

Create obstacles destiny can’t simply override.

Lack of Agency

If characters have no choice:

• Their love seems less meaningful
• The story feels deterministic
• Character actions don’t matter
• No free will undermines character development

Show choice mattering despite destiny.

The Unhealthy Bond

Soulmate stories can accidentally endorse:

• Obsessive, codependent dynamics
• Inability to function without the other
• Ignoring red flags because “destiny”
• Staying in bad situations because soulmates

Healthy relationships matter even when fated.

Non-Soulmate Dismissal

If non-soulmate love is portrayed as lesser:

• Alienates readers in real relationships
• Suggests most love is second-rate
• Shallow worldbuilding
• Unnecessarily cruel to side characters

Validate different kinds of love within the world.

Variations on the Trope

Platonic Soulmates

Destined best friends:

• Equally powerful bond, different nature
• Can coexist with romantic soulmates
• Explores deep non-romantic love
• Challenges assumptions about soulmate meaning

Multiple Soulmates

More than one destined person:

• Different soulmates for different needs
• Polyamorous soulmate dynamics
• Sequential soulmates across life stages
• The complexity of multiple fated bonds

One-Sided Recognition

Only one knows:

• Creates imbalanced dynamic
• The known must earn the other’s love naturally
• Question of whether to reveal
• Power imbalance to navigate

The Broken Bond

Soulmate connection damaged or severed:

• Consequences of loss
• Can it be restored?
• Finding meaning beyond the bond
• Love that continues without destiny’s backing

Soulmate AUs

Popular in fanfiction:

• Applying soulmate mechanics to existing characters
• Exploring how canon relationships would work with soulmate rules
• Mix-and-match different systems
• Reader choice in who’s soulmates

Supporting Characters

Important roles in soulmate stories:

The Non-Soulmate Partner: Current relationship complicated by soulmate discovery

The Skeptic: Someone who doesn’t believe in soulmates

The Searcher: Someone desperately seeking their own soulmate

The Alone: Person without a soulmate (by fate or loss)

The Guide: Someone who understands the soulmate system

Genre Integration

Fantasy: Magical soulmate systems, chosen ones, destiny mechanics

Sci-Fi: Scientific/genetic soulmate matching, technology-mediated bonds

Contemporary: Inexplicable connection in realistic setting

Paranormal: Supernatural soulmate mechanics

Historical: Fate across time periods, reincarnation spanning eras

Creating Your Story with Multic

Soulmate stories offer fascinating branching potential—what if destiny could be resisted? What choices lead toward or away from the fated person? Multic’s tools let creators explore alternate paths through destiny, giving readers agency in how the fated bond unfolds.

When the universe insists two people belong together, the story becomes about what they do with that knowledge—how they choose to honor or resist it, and what love built on cosmic foundation actually looks like day to day.

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